What I have done in Sabah?

Sabah, is extremely hot n boring. no entertainment, no much of shopping mall and restaurant at all. If I have to stay there forever, I think I am going to be crazy......I wonder why there can be so boring? This also was my first trip that such of relax, either stayed at youth hostel or watched movie in shopping mall. So the only things interested my sister n I in hostel was peeking on the foreigner guys n observing whose were leaving or whose were moving in. Actually, I quite recommend this youth hostel--Akinabalu Youth Hostel, because I love their friendly environment n it also my most satisfying hostel right now. hehe...

2 umbrellas are not enough for me

Monkey in Hostel

Actually, my sister n I were planned to climb mountain, but the mountain seem like so hard to climb, so we have given up. Then we planned to go to sea, but the weather was so hot, so we have given up again. haha... Therefore, this is why we thought Sabah is so boring, but luckily still have movie n shopping. haha... However, I still have found a nice shop in OneBorneo shopping mall, namely PLAYGROUND, their clothes and dresses are so beautiful n they also have provided crystal decoration as well, but their prices are a bit expensive. Besides that, Daiso is very cheap too n also the only places that I can spend money. haha...

In Daiso

When the first night we went to watch movie, we were quite shock because their cinema is so old n their movie ticket is very cheap as well-- student price RM5, no matter weekdays or weekend. How cheap it is? hehe... Besides that, their bus fare also very cheap, no matter how far just Rm1 only, but their taxi fare is damn expensive, a short distance already cost RM15 or RM20. Furthermore, there also have a mini bus which is look like van, it cost RM0.50 only. hehe... Sososo...cheap......

I love Shopaholic

By the ways, don't forget every Sunday morning has a huge Pasar Pagi in Gaya Street, which down at Akinabalu Youth Hostel. Not much things to buy, but can have a look there. However, we have met HK artists--罗嘉良&靓靓 taking their new soap drama there. hehe...

So this was my 4 Days 3 Nights Sabah trip--no climbing mountain, no beaching, no scuba diving, no normal things that people did in Sabah. haha...

Seafood Night Stalls

Atkinson Clock Tower

ChurchMentos is so huge

Car Accident

About evening time, I have received a call from my best friend, she suddenly told me that our friend--Zhao Ming has a car accident at yesterday midnight. I really get shocked because his leg has broken and luckily his is not dead. He was fetch by his friend and he got a bad injury but the driver just have a small injury only. I know this is not fair, but life always be like that. This is already the 3rd cases in my friend hood that have car accident and fetching my others. Don't know this is coincide, or just a common accident.
Actually I do not have any hard feeling about that, no tears, no crying, just feel a bit sad about his experience, but I think the only thing that I can do for him is just visit and console him. Maybe I already get used to about death issues. So, Death is not frightening me and I think this is just a cycle of life. I think the more scary thing of death is people start forgetting you one day.
Anyway, hope Zhao Ming will be get well soon. Good Luck for him!!!

Meaningful Message

I have received two meaningful messages from my friends today, just want to share here:

They LOVE u but they are not your lover...
They care for u but they are not from your family...
They are ready to share your pain but they are not in your blood relation.
They are...
Friends!!!
True friend scolds like a Dad!
Cares like a Mom!
Teases like a Sister!
Irritates like a Brother!
and finally loves u more than a lover.

不要等到别人对你微笑后才面露出笑容；
不要等到被爱了才懂得爱；
不要等到觉得寂寞才发现对方的重要；
不要等到拥有太多才懂得分享；
不要等到失败了才记得别人的忠告；
不要等到别人受伤了才请求原谅；
不要等到分开了才希望挽回；
不要等到没了才后悔；
好好珍惜现在身边拥有的人。

爱情观

今天读了一则很有意思的文章， 完全是我的心声，所以想在这里分享：

小时候， 我渴望将来能遇见一个为爱疯狂，为我痴狂的男人。他可以为我赴汤蹈火，不惜一切代价也要爱我，为了我，他愿意放弃全世界；爱上我，他可以放弃自我；一旦我离开他，他只能终生不娶或郁郁而终。失去我，他会伤害自己，甚至活不下去，我，就是他的一切，他的生命。
长大后，我只希望和一个爱我，也爱自己的男人长相厮守。他不需要太爱我，因为，太强烈的爱会变成占有，让我有压力，所以，他只要在我需要的时候，给我一点温暖；他不必为了我放弃自己的世界，因为，没有主见和坚持的男人，总有一天，我会觉得他是累赘；一旦我离开他，他会偶尔缅怀一下我，然后继续生活。
有一天，即使失去我，他也可以好好活着，甚至，活得更好，因为，谁也不是谁的全部，谁也不应该因为失去另一个人而放弃自己的人生。我只是一个曾经走进他的生命，曾经相爱过的人。缘尽了，就该释怀。
曾经，我们都相信 “为爱而生，为爱而死” 是很简单的事，只要爱得够深就可以，不敢用死亡来证明的爱情，一定爱得不够真，更渴望自己的人生就像偶像剧的女主角，拥有翻天覆地，爱得死去活来的爱情。后来才知道，细水长流的感情，最难得。
人一辈子要经历的苦难已经太多，失败，挫折，意外，生病，贫困，天灾，人祸⋯⋯早就数之不尽，何必加上爱情？是的，后来，我终于了解，我要的爱。
我要的爱，很简单。只要一个比我成熟，比我懂事，懂得保护我，照顾我，和我一起面对生活挑战，努力爱我，接受 “我就是我” 的人，他，只需要尽力爱我，绝对不必牺牲一切来爱我，更不需要用他的生命来爱我。

Fortune Teller or Tarot...

Recently, no matter the fortune teller or Tarot that I went, also very accurate. Regardless of the good or bad things, I also will accept it, because this is my fate. Actually is depend on you believe it or not. If you believe, then believe it sincerely; if you don't believe, just think it is a funny joke. But don't take it too serious, because I always believe that fate is controlled my ourselves. Your attitude can represent how your life will be in the future.
But if you have any things bother you or feel confuse of your life recently, please feel free to text or call me to bring you to have a look and give you some clue for your life too. Life is always unpredictable. hehe...

我累了

以为我一直过得很好，原来只是我自己在自欺欺人。
以为眼前看到的东西都是真实地，原来都是虚幻地。
以为我的感情处得很好， 原来是千疮百孔的。
好累好累， 我。。。不在奢求了
原来这个世界上真的是没有两全其美这回事，
只是有个傻瓜一直在欺骗自己。
我累了。。。
我心冷了。。。
原来人的感情只不过如此！
拼命对人好，换来的只不过如此。
也许该是做个了断的时候了。


今天学到了一句话：
Don't let someone become a priority in your life,
when you are just an option in their life......
Relationship work best when they are balanced.

原来我只不过是别人的option. hehe... so ironic...